WHAT TO DO ON A FIRST DATE

Does first date fret you? If you answer yes, how did you deal with it?  There are circumstances that we cannot avoid to feel anxious especially if we want to mark a good impression to our date.  One may not have enough sleep because he or she is thinking all night what are the do’s and the don’ts to follow.  There are many things to consider if we will have our first date e.g. the outfit to wear, the things to talk and the place to go.  Consider these advices below to possibly help lessen the tension or pressure on first date. 

On your first date, you have to look and smell good.  You cannot deny the fact, that if you want to impress someone; you have to look at your best because you do not wish to see a frowning emotion in your date’s face, right?   However, do not over do things like showering your body with perfume a little spray in pulse points will do.  Secondly, act what you are; do not fit in yourself to be a second version of someone else’s shoes.  Each one of us is born unique in this world.  Be real express what you really are. 

During first date, you must not directly talk about your problems or resentments in life.  Remember you are in the stage of “getting to know each other”.  Talk about the basics like his or her favorite sports, movies, songs, food, colors, hobbies, etc.  There are lots of things to talk about, various topics that will not spoil your saliva.    However, put into your mind if you will be talking about topics that will lead in a heated argument never forget to stay cool and calm before it creates worst scenario. 

One of the important rules in dating is to let your date be comfortable with you, so that, you will not receive a one worded answer to your questions, you do not want this to happen right?  Things will run smoothly for both of you if you learn to relax and be comfortable with each other.  You will never realize that time flies so fast!

Making a direct eye contact whilst conversing is a good sign that your date is really paying attention of what you are saying.  If you are looking forward for a second date to happen, let him or her feel that you are sincerely interested with him or her.  Keep all your doors open from any chances of developing a romantic relationship (if you are ready to commit). 

One better thing to keep in mind on your first date is to avoid talking about your past relationships because you are on a date to talk about yourselves and find out if you share similar interests in life.  It is so disappointing and a major turn off to hear someone telling tale about his or her ex.  It only means a thing; it is either you are comparing your date to your ex or the love for your previous relationship is still there.  In either case, you are starting in a wrong foot.